Day 38 -Security - Calamity

 Security            (Goal Number:         )      Calamity

trustworthiness, safety, reliable, surety,  assurance , orotection                     humiliation, hardship, ruination, danger, uncertain

 AWAKE TO THE GENUINE VALUE:  

As a secure person, you feel safe and consider those around you to be trustworthy. Your life feels comfortable. You are secure in yourself, comfortable in your own skin. You are safe to be around, and others feel secure in your presence. You feel protected.

 PARTIALLY ASLEEP TO THE GENUINE VALUE:

You are not totally convinced that all is secure. There are some nagging feelings of being unsafe. You are not fully secure in yourself, and you have numerous self-doubts.  Sometimes peope feel uneasy around you, but they usually do not know why.   

LIVING IN THE IMPOSTOR VALUE:

Your sense of security is gone. You have faced humiliation, not always of your own making. You may have fallen into someone else’s problem, or you may have been the prime mover of the disaster. Because of this and other disastrous ecents, you feel in danger cand uncertain what to do. You have lost cconfidence in yourself.You often misjudge others and trust the wrong person, because you do not trust yourself.

Look at your life. Which is the most true for you?   ____ 1   _____ 2  _____ 3

What to do:

DECISION

Choose. Which do you want for yourself and your world? Which way would you like life to be?

FOCUSING YOUR MIND

Going for the target you have chosen

To shift in the direction of security, select some or all of the following and copy them in order to have them with you. Live with them. Think about them. Absorb them.

·     I am more and more secure in myself.

·     I am able to discern clearly and make decisions that are reliable and safe.

·     I am building a secure life.

·     I am trustworthy and surround myself with trustworthy people.

REINFORCING BEHAVIORS

Action steps to take to get off the log

·     Think through any disasters in your life. Look for patterns. Note them and be on alert for those same patterns, if they come up again. Do not complete them, for you know where those patterns lead.

·     List what you think ypu need in order to feel secure. Ponder the list. Is this a true list? Make edits. Be honest with yourself, do you think you need something outside of yourself to be secure? Why?

·     Ask yourself, when did you cease feeling secure in your own skin? What precipitated the seeds of your self-doubt? Do some visualizations and affirmations to heal this. Talk to a trusted person and get help diffusing your self-doubt.

·     Start/continue saving money, a portion of all that comes in. Cut down on unnecessary expenditures.Pay off credit cards steadily until they are paid off. Save at least enough money to cover 3 months of expenses.

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