SDay 40 - Service - Dissercice

 Service             (Goal Number:         )             Disservice      

beneficial, blessing, boon, help                                                            damage,  harm, injurious, curse, hurtful

 AWAKE TO THE GENUINE VALUE:                                            

You live a life of service.  You try to have everything you do be beneficial to all people, including yourself.  In many ways, your life has been about being a blessing to everyone.  It is important to you to make a difference with your life by serving others.  You prefer situations where everyone wins.  You are a helpful person, always ready to do your part in helping others, willingly and with a generous heart..

PARTIALLY ASLEEP TO THE GENUINE VALUE: 

You are sometimes a serving person, and sometimes you are more self-serving.  You like to do things beneficial to yourself and others, especially to yourself.  You like it best when people you care about are the winners.  You are willing to help, up to a point.

LIVING IN THE IMPOSTOR VALUE:

Your life is definitely not about service.  Even when you try to help, it turns out you do more harm than good.  In fact, you sometimes do serious damage.  It can irritate you to even be asked to help.  It can upset you so much that you end up cursing, and so you make a very negative impact.  You can be quite a hurtful person.

Look at your life. Which is the most true for you?   ____ 1   _____ 2  _____ 3

What to do:

DECISION

Choose. Which do you want for yourself and your world? Which way would you like life to be?

FOCUSING YOUR MIND

Going for the target you have chosen

To shift in the direction of service, select some or all of the following and copy them in order to have them with you. Live with them. Think about them. Absorb them.

• I desire my life to be a beneficial presence.
• I am thankful for all of the blessings in my life.  I endeavor to be a blessing.
• It feels good to know that people trust me so much that they want my help.
• I want to be truly helpful.

REINFORCING BEHAVIORS

Action steps to take to get off the log

·     Think seriously about how the world runs so much on organizations and people who are in service, working to do good.  Imagine a world without these services.  Find a way for you to be of service to others to make the world a better place.

·     Decide each day to be a blessing to at least one person.  Keep increasing this until you are a constant blessing.

·     Look for ways to be helpful and help from a good and generous heart.

·     Refuse to do any harm whatsoever.

Remember Service